My boyfriend is using online dating
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Little encounters here and there but nothing to get excited about.
He always has an excuse why he can’t be with us so I tell my children, who adore him that he has to work or has a previous commitment. Is there hope that he will step up to the plate and be a part of my children’s lives or will he continue to ignore what means most to me in the world, my children? I wrote this in “Why He Disappeared” and nothing I’ve heard since has convinced me otherwise. If he wants to sleep with you, he’ll sleep with you. And if he wants to be your boyfriend without spending any time with your kids, well, that’s what he’s gonna do. If he wanted to get married or have kids, he’d probably have done so by now, right?Should I have a one-on-one with him about this or keep doing what I’m doing and hope things will change? This should, in no way, diminish the fact that you seem to be very happy with him as a boyfriend.It just means that it’s entirely possible that this is the only role he wants in your life – the one where he really doesn’t have to compromise all that much.Just as there are great guys who make shitty boyfriends…and great boyfriends who turn into shitty husbands, there are also great boyfriends who DON’T WANT TO BE great husbands.I’m a 38-year old single mom with an 11yr old daughter and 5yr old son.I’ve been dating a 47-year old bachelor (has no children) for a year.
We see each other when we can as we are both busy with 2 jobs. I get along with all of his friends…they actually make me feel special.I have met his brother and his family and love them.However, he still has not invited me to meet his parents (they live 30 min away) which seems strange to me…he met mine after 3 months of dating and really get along well.Everything is perfect until it is my weekend with my kiddies!I’m not possessive, quite the opposite, and would never suggest he spend all of his time with me!But I am wondering whether he will ever get more involved with the two most precious people to me…my children!