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Emotional abuse, verbal abuse, and domestic violence are on the rise, especially among young people.
Unfortunately, most abusers are able to mask these tendencies in dating.
By the time many people notice the obvious red flags, they're already attached to an abuser, which makes it much harder for them to leave the relationship.
More useful than a list of obvious red flags are guidelines based onof a potentially abusive relationship, signs that are visible before an attachment bond is formed.
The following is a list of qualities to look for in a potential lover. Note: During the early stages of your relationship, your partner is not likely to do any of these things to you.
But witnessing these attitudes and behaviors toward others is a sure sign that they will turn onto you, sooner or later.
Very Early Warning Sign #1: A Blamer Avoid anyone who blames his negative feelings and bad luck on someone else.
Special care is necessary here, as blamers can be really seductive in dating.Their blame of others can make you look great by comparison: "You're so smart, sensitive, caring, and loving, not like that bitch I used to go out with." "Why couldn't I have met you before that self-centered, greedy, woman I used to date?" "You're so calm and together, and she was so crazy and paranoid." Hearing this kind of thing might make you think that all he really needs is the understanding and love of a good woman to change his luck.This disastrous assumption flies in the face of the Law of Blame.When you become the closest person to him, the blame will certainly turn on you.Blamers can be dangerous to love because they usually suffer from victim identity.