17 and 20 year old dating

08-Mar-2015 01:45 by 8 Comments

17 and 20 year old dating

Statutory rape is probably–no, definitely–the most controversial topic for you, our readers.Not something super divisive like abortion or feminism, statutory rape.

Well, I can assure you, we’re none of those things, but we are definitely young women who are trying to look out for y’all.Love is love, but laws are laws and sketchy is sketchy.When it comes to statutory rape, sometimes there’s a shade of gray that makes things complicated, but we’re going to try to keep it real. If you’re underage you can’t consent to having sex. It’s not necessarily the violent rape you’re probably thinking of, but it’s still a form of rape.So here’s everything you need to know about statutory rape. Statutory rape is sexual activity between two people in which one person is under the age of consenting to sexual activity in the first place. Okay, how do I find out what the age of consent is where I live.Yeah, it’s such a faux pas to link to Wikipedia, but they have an extensive list of the age of consent in every single country/state/territory on the planet so there you go.Wait, so if I’m under the age of consent then what happens if I have consensual sex with someone else who is also under the age of consent?

Well, in some states then technically both of you have broken the law.

But jaywalking is also against the law and people do that all the time.

The point I’m making is that unless someone goes out of their way to bring you and your boo to court, you’re safe to continue doing whatever you two are doing.

Isn’t it sort of stupid for a law to determine how old I have to be to consent to sex? Everyone matures at different ages; some 16-year-olds are more mature than 20-year-olds and are able to make smarter decisions about sex than their elders, that’s true.

But one of the best ways to understand why statutory rape laws are in place is to look outside of how mature you think you are and think about things a little more generally.

For example, with age differences comes a power play.

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